What is anxiety?

admin — Fri, 21 May 2010 01:30:23 +0000

What is anxiety? I will try to answer this question from a personal viewpoint, and relate it to my understanding of the metaphysical and spiritual links that create anxiety for you from your hidden thoughts or emotions driven by some internal reasoning process, that you need to become aware of to alleviate anxiety fully, rather than to mask it by taking medication.

I myself feel anxiety whenever I have uncompleted events in my life, or unfinished business, or when I have an unknown future to face. When I have to wait before I can do something, I begin to experience anticipation anxiety. For example at the weekend, when a certain business is closed, and perhaps I have to confront them in the next week about an error on my account, I am most anxious until the situation has actually taken place satisfactorily, and been resolved completely.

If it is not resolved fully, I remain even more anxious, until it’s all satisfactorily resolved. I am always anxious in this way when anything is left uncompleted, or unfinished, or unfinalised.

The fullness of you as a person is restricted by anxiety. Anxiety is a pressure cooker of the traumatic allowance of all your misaligned thoughts, of all the anticipated negative outcomes, that are possible for you. These thoughts are replayed many times over, producing anxiety, and anxious waiting for the result, that the thoughts will be satisfied from and by. Thoughts are never satisfied, and so anxiety builds and rebuilds, until the thoughts burn themselves out from a preponderance of upwards pressure, allowing them to trigger an annoyance level, that you cannot then sustain.

Annoyance is the first step of the ladder, heading towards anxiety.

At this time, you will try to drop all of your thoughts, not only your anxious thoughts, out of a now newly acquired attitude of not caring, or of an apathetic acceptance of what is. This is a pseudo form of acceptance, created from an attitude of fear in your bottom line. Fear leads to a bravado, devil may care attitude, and a hidden form of anxiety follows.

This hidden form of anxiety develops in you, and manifests as physical pain, such as headaches, and shoulder pain, whenever you are too afraid to be your real self, and when you have stopped trusting your real self, and the flow of your life. Acceptance though, proper acceptance of the situation as it is in reality, is the only true cure for anxiety. And acceptance is no more than developing trust in yourself, and in the natural

Dating scene: Assessing the game and the players involved

admin — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 19:09:46 +0000

The Dating Game

I get this over and over and over again in my professional practice. Women, who are otherwise intelligent and logical beings become irrational and unrealistic and anxiety ridden when the object of their affections becomes ambivalent, or worse, uninterested.

I am not talking about those in “long term” relationships. I am talking about those who are truly single and dating who don’t want to give a relationship time to grow or develop naturally, or don’t allow the male to take the “reigns” so to speak, of the masculine energy role (the initiator) and jump the gun in oh so many ways.

The advice that I give over and over and over again, which VERY few follow, is to remove their energy and attention AWAY from the gentleman who is behaving in a distant manner. This means, don’t call him up, don’t text him, don’t stalk him online, don’t invite him out……….the female (at the dating stage) must allow the male the time and the “room” to decide whether or not he wants to take this further, which is not on the same schedule as the female.

Females tend to decide very quickly that they want to be involved. They may have just flirted with a gentleman and they will call me and ask “is this the guy that I am going to marry”. Although the cards will show if there is a POTENTIAL for a long term relationship, if you have just met a guy this weekend and he hasn’t even asked you out yet, this question is based on suppositions galore and it is not likely that you will get a very accurate answer.

Tarot Readings are not set in stone. They will tell you what is LIKELY to happen if you remain on the same path, continue with the same types of actions, into the future. Any changes in YOUR behavior change the outcomes of the situation…..Tarot Readings are a living, breathing, metaphysical wonder and change as your actions change.

A more apropos question at the first stages of infatuation would be “will he ask me out” and then after a date or so “will we develop a relationship” perhaps after 6-9 months of exclusive dating….”will he consider marrying me”…….the questions have to be realistic in comparison to the situation in order to have any sense of accuracy.

If you want to be the “feminine” energy in a relationship with a “masculine” male, as archaic as it may sound, you must allow him to set the pace, if it is not in your nature to allow this, then you may be a “masculine” energy female, or if you are truly “feminine” energy, you need to

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What is anxiety?

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