The Dating Game

I get this over and over and over again in my professional practice. Women, who are otherwise intelligent and logical beings become irrational and unrealistic and anxiety ridden when the object of their affections becomes ambivalent, or worse, uninterested.

I am not talking about those in “long term” relationships. I am talking about those who are truly single and dating who don’t want to give a relationship time to grow or develop naturally, or don’t allow the male to take the “reigns” so to speak, of the masculine energy role (the initiator) and jump the gun in oh so many ways.

The advice that I give over and over and over again, which VERY few follow, is to remove their energy and attention AWAY from the gentleman who is behaving in a distant manner. This means, don’t call him up, don’t text him, don’t stalk him online, don’t invite him out……….the female (at the dating stage) must allow the male the time and the “room” to decide whether or not he wants to take this further, which is not on the same schedule as the female.

Females tend to decide very quickly that they want to be involved. They may have just flirted with a gentleman and they will call me and ask “is this the guy that I am going to marry”. Although the cards will show if there is a POTENTIAL for a long term relationship, if you have just met a guy this weekend and he hasn’t even asked you out yet, this question is based on suppositions galore and it is not likely that you will get a very accurate answer.

Tarot Readings are not set in stone. They will tell you what is LIKELY to happen if you remain on the same path, continue with the same types of actions, into the future. Any changes in YOUR behavior change the outcomes of the situation…..Tarot Readings are a living, breathing, metaphysical wonder and change as your actions change.

A more apropos question at the first stages of infatuation would be “will he ask me out” and then after a date or so “will we develop a relationship” perhaps after 6-9 months of exclusive dating….”will he consider marrying me”…….the questions have to be realistic in comparison to the situation in order to have any sense of accuracy.

If you want to be the “feminine” energy in a relationship with a “masculine” male, as archaic as it may sound, you must allow him to set the pace, if it is not in your nature to allow this, then you may be a “masculine” energy female, or if you are truly “feminine” energy, you need to