In divorce, should the father have equal custody rights to his children?
The answer is “Yes”, and sometimes, on rare occasion the answer could be “NO”.
I am going for the most of the time, where the father is assumed to be of sound
mind and body, and able to be of use. Yes, this means “Yes”. My perspective is
coming from most knowledge about the metaphysical relationship the child has with
both parents. The child needs both.
No, it is not up to us in our infinite wisdom to put a spouse to death, virtually
speaking of course, and then move on as if nothing important was dismissed from the
child’s life.
Yes I have experience with divorce, both on my side and that of my wife.
No, I did not always execute sound judgment, but I see the misguided mind share I had,
and I wish to pass on something useful to those that actually wish to gain
something from articles like this one. Think objectively, if your not too far
consumed with hatred at this moment.
Who is the child relaxed with?
Who obsesses the least in stressful situations? Finally, whose family is the
least charged with outwardly expressed hatred? Yes, this is the best place for
the child to inherit the sum of the family disassembling you both made
unilaterally, without being taught by example how to be bitter and hate
without thought, like one or both of you may be doing. I am calling this parent, for temporary custody, while the other one calms down. Okay, okay, enough of
the lecture. Now, let’s get back to the child. After all, they are the fruit
of the future, and the only thing that really makes us special in this world.
Let’s examine what would still include both parents and provide the least amount
of pressure, and disruption for the child. Oh, by the way, nothing has been
established by virtue of sex, who is the better parent, in this article anyway.
Mentally speaking, sanity is the quality of the inventoried items taken, we need
most for the kid now.
Know who you are, and what you are, and not whether or not you like the other spouse,
and please choose the calm one. Hopefully this is the most responsible one also.
I did not say this is the one who has half the week, I just conveyed, during the
legal phase, until an actual schedule is agreed upon or exonerated by a judge, we
need to act like the child is the priority, not a sofa from the living room.
A little humor never hurt! Cheers, and this is all I have to offer here.
Oh, one final thought;
Think about things before you jump. Try to recall logic if you still can.
My oldest that went through this is a full grown adult now, and I feel eventually
my ex and I did come around to a good relationship, for the sake of the child.
The future of the one who did not have a part in the failure should be the focus,
not the human left-overs for the world to consume, or to be consumed by the world.
This way we are acting responsible. This is what us adults are called to do after all.
Give of yourself for the sake of the child, not for the sake of the ex.
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