How to improve your communication skills

By admin · Sunday, July 19th, 2009

Clear communication is a key factor to a

happy and fulfilling life. How well you

communicate will determine the quality

of all of your relationships, therefore

determining the overall quality of your

life.

The reason why most people have unsatisfactory

results in their life, is because they have

poor communication skills. People get frustrated

when they don’t get what they want, and often times

don’t realize it is because they did not communicate

clearly, what it is they wanted.

Poor results come from poor communication, not only in

personal communication, but also in metaphysical communication.

Many times people do not get exactly what they want in life

because their communication to the Universe or the Higher

Power and to themselves is unclear.

You must be very clear on exactly what it is you want when

communicating with another person, The Universe, or yourself.

I know you may be thinking, what do I mean with yourself.

A lot of times we are wishy washy with what we want. We

tell ourselves “I kind of want this, but I also kind of

want that.” or “I guess that would be alright.”. We need

to be very specific with ourselves of exactly what it is

we want. We cannot express clearly, to someone else, what

we want if we are unclear, about what we want, ourselves.

First we will discuss how to communicate with your Higher Power

to get what you want, then we will discuss how to communicate

with other people. I am using the term “Higher Power” or

“Universe” because I do not want to offend any one’s religious

beliefs. You can replace the term Higher Power with God or

whatever name you believe the creative source to be called.

The principles for communication will be the same.

To manifest what you want in life, from a metaphysical standpoint,

I would highly encourage you to sit quietly with a pen and paper,

and write exactly what it is that you want to create in your life.

Write what you want in great detail. The more detailed you are, the

better. Remember, this is about being extremely clear about what it

is that you want.

After you have written what it is that you want, I would highly suggest

that you read what you wrote one to three times a day out loud. This

will benefit you in two ways. First, it will help your mind get extremely

clear and focused on exactly what you want. Your mind being clear will help

you stay focused, take proper action and communicate to others in a more

clear, concise and effective